Ok! I decided to email 1st and read emails later this time,
so I don't run out of time to bore you with the details of my mission ;)
Wow! I've almost been here a month! Unbelievable!!! After a
month here is my description of England:
- As Winnie the Pooh would say, everyday here is a
"blustery" day! You pretty much experience almost all 4 seasons every
hour here. Rain-wind-rain-sun-wind-wind-lots of wind and rain- sun- freezing
cold- so hot you almost die- wind-wind- rain. It keeps you on your toes!
- The people here definitely are tough when it comes to
religion. I kept being told that this would be a difficult mission, and those
people were right. BUT, fortunately for these people, I am stubborn, and like
to talk, so THEY WILL LOVE ME!! Haha
-They have the best yogurt ever (there's this yogurt called
corner yogurt. It's seriously the bomb!! I'm never going back!) and the best
chocolate ever!
- I LOVE IT! I love England. I love the ward members here
sooooo much! I love the accents (note the plural; there is no such thing as an
"English Accent". There about 2 billion English Accents). I
love the people. They are polite, and kind, and caring, and I LOVE their sense
of humour! When I think of England, I just think of the word LOVE!
It has been a very difficult week. My patience has been
tried so much! I don't know if I mentioned it, but we are white-washing
this area (meaning that there haven't been missionaries here for a longgg time-
5 yrs in our case!). We arrived to an empty area book, and have been literally
building from the ground up. Every second of our day is filled with either appointments
with members or finding on the streets and at homes. BUT I have been so
happy it almost hurts! I can't explain how fulfilling it is to work until you
have nothing left, and then having to rely 100% on the Lord to get through the
day. Your faith grows so much, and you just that everything you are doing is so
important. It is truly such a blessing to be here and to be doing this work!
Monday:
What a week! So last p-day, the funniest, strangest thing
happened. Sis. Shchur and I were sitting in our flat at 5pm, eating fish and
chips to finish off p-day, when suddenly we got a text from the sister we
taught last week (the real housewives of Orange County sister). She texted
saying that her boxing club was having a medal ceremony for some of their
high level athletes who won some major competitions over the weekend. The
former professional boxer/well respected coach who was supposed to present
the medals was stuck in London (delayed flight) and couldn't make it, so they
invited Sis. S to present the medals. Let me tell you, that was the funniest
call I think anyone's ever had to make to President Preston. He and I were
laughing our heads off, while poor Sister Shchur was just embarassed out of her
mind. The President loved it and told us to go and have fun! So off we went.
Sis. Shchur got interviewed by the newspaper and got her picture in the paper
with it. She was treated like a celebrity there. One coach even asked for her
autograph! They gave us some doughnuts to thank us for coming (CHA CHING! Free
food for a missionary is like the biggest blessing ever!!!). Fun fact though:
being a sister missionary in a gym full of shirtless, sweaty,
teenage/young adult males is AWKWARD! I was very happy to leave at the end,
because while my companion was away from me for the ceremony I kept having
random guys try to talk to me.
The Car! So we finally got the car back (we drove a courtesy
car to our area my first day, which they took back the next day. Our actual
car- the one the elders crashed- was in the shop FOREVER). The lame part: we
only had the car for 5 days! President told us that a senior couple would
eventually need the car, so we were not to get too comfortable having one. He
originally thought that wouldn't be for another month and half, but plans
changed. So we had 5 glorious days with Hermana (figured it was a good, exotic
name for a sister missionary car). I am good at driving here now thank
goodness. After about a day and a half of driving, and driving tips from the
members here, I now can drive comfortably on English roads. I must admit
though, I still hate how narrow the roads are here! I nearly wet myself every
time I have to pass a car!
We met with Sister “C” on Tuesday. She has been having a
really tough time and hasn't been to church in ages. She opened right up to us,
and pretty much told us her entire life story (all her issues, her conversion
story) without even being asked to. She's struggled with self-esteem issues
really badly (I would almost call it self-hate) and has gone in and out of
activity due to being offended by people at various times. Just like our
meeting last week, I don't know where my words came from. I was able to share
some scriptures with her about enduring to the end. More importantly, I was
able to share a testimony of the importance of the atonement. That because of
it our weaknesses can become strong. That we are hurting ourselves by not going
to church. And a whole bunch of other things that no email could ever describe
properly. We were all in tears. She tearfully acknowledged that it was time for
her to come back to church. And she did! It was such an incredibly sacred
experience. I love how the Lord spirit works! It's absolutely mind-blowing!!
I was able to give another BOM (Book of Mormon) away this last week. I know 2
BOM's in a week doesn't sound like a whole lot, but in this area- trust me- it
is! Slowly making progress.
TENDER MERCY OF THE LORD THIS WEEK!!
Since we've been whitewashing, we've had no one to teach. We
desperately search every day, but have had no luck yet. Last Sunday, the bishopric
gave us a list of names of members who had moved into the ward, but had never
been seen or heard from. It was our job to find them and work with them to
eventually get them to church. After tracting for 5 hours straight (with no
luck), we decided to check on one address before we had to go home (we had
already gone there 3 times). A man answered the door, but it was not the member
(we don't know what happened to him). This man's name was Kalid. We started
talking to him, and he was so prepared for the gospel it wasn't even funny! He
has studied so many different religions. He has a strong belief in Jesus
Christ. He prays every day and tries to repent daily as well. He used to be
into alcohol and drugs, and used Jesus Christ's atonement to free himself from
that life. He loved everything we were sharing and booked a return appointment
that night. Last night (Sunday) we had our first discussion with him. It went
well. He has already been reading the BOM we gave him and really enjoyed it.
The idea of having the proper priesthood made sense to him, and the concept of
the apostasy and the restoration also made sense. We started talking about
baptism for him. He has barely started reading the BOM so he wants to learn
more from us and from studying the BOM, but he understood that he needs to be
baptized down the road once he has a testimony from reading of the BOM. He kept
saying that before he met us that he was trying to change his life and didn't
know how. We came at exactly the right time in his life and he recognized that
HF had sent us to help him make that change. We meet with him again on
Wednesday. I hope that it will go well and I pray that his testimony will begin
to grow. What a blessing Kalid was to me! It gave me the motivation to keep on
working hard. You never know when you'll run into those who are ready for
the gospel.
We just found out this morning that we will be covering two
areas now. The other ward (Wrekin ward) does not have sisters and they really
badly need to us work with them, because they have a large number of single
sisters. So we will be even more busy now! I'm excited! I will be exhausted BUT
this will mean 2x the referrals, 2x the opportunities to bless the members, 2x
the blessings, and 2x the amount of personal learning/growth I will experience!
We got to be in the annual Wellington village parade on
Saturday! It all happened within the course of a few mins.
We (the Telford elders and ourselves) were originally supposed
to just come to the Wellington carnival and run a table for the church (where
people could learn more, talk to us, get BOM's, pamphlets etc.). They needed
people to help in the parade last minute, so we tossed on some helping hands
shirts, and got to be in the parade. So fun! Unfortunately I have no pictures
though, because we thought we were just coming to run a booth. The carnival was
fun. It was pouring rain and windy (of course). What a fun day!
A highlight/lowlight (all at once) of the week was our trip
to Bolten. Sis. Shchur had a family she taught getting baptized out there Saturday
night. Bolten is just over a 2 hr drive from us and out of our area, so I
really got to test my driving skills out!! The baptism was beautiful! 6
people got baptized. They were all Iranian, so the entire service was
in Farsi. The sacrifices these people made to be baptized is phenomenal! If
anyone these people knew back in Iran found out about their baptisms, them
or their family in Iran would be killed, imprisoned, or
seriously injured. We couldn't take any pictures, because of this! Despite
this, they all wanted to still be baptized! Their faith is so inspiring. There
were so many missionaries at the baptism, and it was so nice to see the result
of those Elders and Sisters' labours! This baptism inspired me to work harder.
To have more faith! The drive to Bolten was fine, but the drive back was a
different story. 1st off, we almost got killed by a lorry (semi-truck)...no
joke. Like almost died.... I was driving in the left lane on a
motorway (in England, the left lane is the slow lane on the highway),
going the speed limit, minding my own business. Suddenly a massive lorry starts changing lanes...into us! I almost swerved off the road. The crazy part.
He starts honking his horns, tailgating me, and flickering his high beams at
ME! He almost hit us, and killed us, and he was road-raging at us! It was
terrifying! Then on the way home, the major motorway that we needed to get back
to Telford was closed. So we had to take a detour that added an extra 1h20mins
to our trip. So we didn't get home until super late! It was so frustrating and
scary, as the detour took us through the back country roads. It was super
rainy,super dark, and the roads were extremely narrow and windy; I was very
uncomfortable driving them. The fun part though. We got special permission to
sleep in until 8:30am because we got in so late. Sleeping in on the mission is
unheard of! It was heaven sleeping in!! :)
A very english dish that I tried and actually was shocked
that I liked. Mushy peas with chips (french fries). We had fish and chips at a
family's home, and they gave me peas to have with my chips. I was so weirded
out by this, but I smiled and took a bite. Never thought that combo would work.
So there's your fun fact of the day!
A strange tender mercy I received this week. I was having a
tough afternoon, and we were out finding in town center as usual. Suddenly an
old man called out to us and asked if we could take a minute and sit with him;
he said he gets lonely and no one talks to him. His name was Steven. He's 74
yrs old and lives in a home, but gets to spend the day out it town 2x a week.
He said he has no family. There's no way to put it but he is crazy. Something
isn't quite right with him (I think he may have some kind of mental disorder,
or maybe just old age). He babbled on for 25 mins about how he went to a
Catholic boarding school and the nuns were mean and used to rap his knuckles
with bamboo rods. He sang an old Catholic hymn for us. He asked about our
missionary work (he kept thinking we were nuns....he didn't like nuns because
of his boarding school days haha). He did this all in a super loud (almost
yelling) voice, including the singing. It was so awkward. So why is this a
tender mercy. It just warmed my heart. Steven was so thrilled that someone
would talk with him. He asked if we would see him again (we're going to try!).
He was happy that someone cared about him. I got a little taste of what
Heavenly Father must feel for all of his children. It brought me joy to make
Steven's day a bit better.
I'm super nervous today. We met a polish man named Remek, and my companion volunteered me on the spot to teach him English. I have no clue how to teach English. I'm kind of freaking out. I may have to do this more, because we often meet Polish people (there are a lot of them here in England) who don't know much English. Pray for me! I'll need it!
Love you!!!!!!!
Erika!!!